Wednesday, April 30, 2008

HOME

What an incredible journey ! We finally made it back to Bham on Monday evening at 11:30 p.m. The flight began at 10:50 a.m. - Ukraine time. Our facilitator took another family with three boys and us to the airport. From there, a nine hour flight to JFK. Two hour lay over and we are on our way to Atlanta on a two and a half hour flight. The kids did great on the plane. Daniel decided that all people spoke his Russian/English language and talked a lady's ears off for the entire flight. She spoke Russian so it helped them remain interested and calm. It has been this way for the entire trip. God has always put a person in front of us that has helped with the process or entertained the children. HE is very real if we will look. George Straight has a new song, "I saw God today". Take a listen. We saw him in the faces of our children and the new friends that we made on the journey.
Another thing that Amanda and I did was to get all of the kids bage to take on the plane for small toys, etc. We have our backpacks and all four have bags. They are small enough for the kids to carry. Wrong. Papa and Mama carry all the bags and the two youngest. FUN!

Next is a three hour lay over in Atlanta. Birmingham is 2 hours away. Advice for parents from Bham - drive from ATlanta to Bham. During the lay over the kids began to show their fatigue. So I did what any good father would do. Bribed them with ice cream ! It took me two trips before we actually got ice cream. Yesterday in Ukraine - today in Atlanta airport. When your world consisted of the routine of the orphanage, this can shake anyone. Victoria (Vica) considered the entire airport her chance to play the chase me game. After ice cream it was Benadryl time. Note for adoptive parents - when flying with kids take Benadryl. We are having a good trip and then we get on the connecting flight to the Bham.

All are sleepy and the pilot announces that we will have a 35 minute delay to take some gas OUT of the plane ? Are you kidding me ? Apparently, if there is too much gas in the plane you cannot land in Bham because of the weight. It is a good thing that I didn't have ice cream or we would have been longer. One hour later we are on the way to Bham. (Reminder: Birmingham is a two hour drive). Christian begans to cry on the plane and I have to replace the man sitting in the aisle to figure out the problem. That man was very generous to give up his seat. I talk to him and cannot figure out the problem. After a few minutes, I hold him and he indicates that he has to pee. We go to the bathroom and the crying stops. It is a bad feeling not knowing what is wrong with the children because of language.

We get off of the plane and began to walk the corridor to see our immediate family. This is very surreal and exciting. The first person I see is my brother Jeff. I almost felt like crying knowing that he and Jordan wanted to be there. It is over an hour to their home in Locust Fork and it is midnight. He is a great, brother, father to three wonderful girls, and man. I love him and his entire family. Then we see all of the grandparents. Honey and Big Lee were instrumental in getting the house set up and the rooms done for the kids. Grandmother and grandmother Fred (not a typo, long story for another blog) also helped in a big way and continue to do things for us. It was great to see them all. Amanda and I love you more than words can say and know that you will get as much joy as we will from your new granchildren. P - A friend indeed.

After getting our luggage, we are off to the house. You never quite realize how much you love home until you go away for 6 or 7 weeks. We pull up in front of the house and there sits a car. It is James Willis, a young man that attends Spain Park and will play at Miss. College. Amanda and I love this boy and are very proud of the strides that he has made. James, we hope you are always in our life and will always be welcome in our home. We love you. Mr. B thanks for telling him.

Out in front is a sign welcoming the Hood's home. Kenny and Tresha, we love the sign and the help. The house looked great. We arrive inside and the kids go nuts. There are clothes, video tapes, and toys in the front room from the people at OMHS. Thanks to you all. Melissa - your generosity and leadership and appreciated. We then go upstairs and see the beautiful new rooms. All of you that helped with this, we thank you from the bottom of our heart. Aunt Deb, Jimmy, and Jenny - we are blown away by your gift of time, energy, and effort in painting, decorating, and hanging fans. You guys are awesoe. I do hope we see you more often. I do not recall every one that helped, but please know that we are grateful.

To the kitchen and there is evidence that Martha Wall has been there. Food everywhere. You are special to our family. We love you. Thank you to all that contributed to filling the cupboars. What a blessing. Randolph and board - true friends.

The kids are on overload with the toys, clothes and new rooms. The grandparents are immediately whipped. Playing and laughing with the kids. Watching Olivia model all of her clothes and smile were worth it all. Especially for her. She hasn't laughed until we got home. Now she is happy. Big Lee - Vica had you in five minutes. Christian loves his microphone and toy gun. The grandmothers were loved by all. It was a beautiful thing to see. Fred, JD, Wanda and Lee - you have made a difference in their lives already. We are blessed to have you as parents.

I go outside on the deck and some of my trees are gone and the back yard is raked. On the tree is a sign that says, "Welcome Home - From your new Big Brothers at OMHS - Coming Soon" On the sign is a picture of a playset that is being installed. Being a Head football coach is a complicated job. You are never really sure how much your players and parents care for you and your family. My players have shown my family and I incredible support and love. OMHS football players - I Love you and you have shown to be the best kind of men - warriors with heart. I am proud to be your coach. To the football parents - your prayers, e-mails, and kindness have helped us make it through. Ken and Michelle - you have big hearts, it was good to see you again and we tahnk you. Kathy, we were kept up to date with your and the others families acts of kindness. God bless you. Parents -thank you for allowing me the chance to coach your children.

We have now trying to settle in our home routine. The kids are smiling and playing. All of you have helped make a life for these four wonderful children. Vica and Daniel love the bubble bath. Olivia and Christian had a great time at practice.

We must go for now. Amanda is making breakfast and the kids are starting to play. The house seems so full of noise and energy. They all have on their pajamas and will soon have a FAMILY breakfast. God is Cool ! Got to go someone just called for PAPA. "I saw God Today"

Jerry

PS. I missed most of you that helped and supported. Please know that we thank you and love you all. Until...............

Thursday, April 24, 2008

So Far, So Good...


Well- All I can say is that we are still standing! We picked up the children on the afternoon of the 22nd and are now in Kiev waiting on our visas. Once we get them, we will be heading home!! The kids are very excited about EVERYTHING! Overstimulated is an understatement. In reality, they have been doing great. They have made the most of difficult situations- driving for 10 hours in a Camry with 7 people, not eating on regular schedules, no naps, car sickness, and the list goes on and on. They are getting used to us and we are getting used to them, but it has been very good. We could not have asked for much more!

Now that the children are officially "ours", we feel a little more confortable sharing some personal insight about them. We were lucky enough to adopt 4 children, 2 boys and 2 girls. Olivia Hope is is almost 9, Christian Ruslan is almost 8, Daniel Jackson is 4, and Victoria Faith is 3. They are all wonderful and have VERY strong personalities. Each of them is very different in their own ways. Olivia and Christian did an outstanding job in their performance on the 21st. I just cried and cried as they performed. All of their friends each stood up at the end and spoke to us as a family. They talked about how important a family is and how it is a special gift. It was one of the toughest things that I have ever sat through. Even our translator was crying!

Olivia is not so sure about me yet. She loves her papa!! She wants Jerry to help her do everything. She has been the one taking care of the other 3, and she can't quite figure out how she feels about me interrupting that. There are moments when she gets to just be a kid, like everyone else, and that is exactly the way we want it! She is very helpful with the two little ones. Christian is all boy, and can be very silly at times. We will blame that on the age! He loves to jump around, move, and play pretend karate! He is also very technology savy. It doesn't take him long to figure anything out. These two have that most challenging road ahead. They will have to work on their English, and break some habits that have been with them for years. They are good kids and are smart of enough to know what they are going to have to do. (They are not thrilled about having to learn another language to be able to talk to their parents!) The language barrier was probably my biggest underestimation. The kids get very frustrated when you don't understand them and we find ourselves getting frustrated when they don't understand why we are telling them to stop doing something. It is a true challenge and we have created signs that we use when we talk. Jerry and I have also learned a lot of Russian in the past 3 days!!

The Daniel and Victoria are great! Daniel is small for his age but is so much fun. He is very loveable in the mornings. He will tell you that he loves you and he will tell everyone when we has to go to the bathroom! He can also cry louder than anyone I have every heard. He also inconsolable. It is usually over having to go to bed, not being able to turn the lights on and off again, etc. You get the point.... He loves taking baths and that has been a huge relief for me. This was something that Daniel or Victoria had not experienced much because they had been in the orphanage most of their young life. Victoria is a MESS! She is going to be the type of girl that will steal your heart and then stomp on it! She is tough and doesn't take anything off of anyone. Baths with her have been another issue. That is an area that we are working on!! She did much better today, thank goodness. When you ask her for a kiss, she simply sticks out her cheek for you to kiss her. She is very used to being kissed by everyone at the orphanage. She has the type of cheeks that you just want to touch! Her favorite thing today was wearing Jerry's tennis shoes around the apartment. She was hysterical!

We did take the children to McDonald's today. The loved it, of course! This was the first time that I realized that we are an oddity. When we walked into McD's, everyone began staring because we had so many children. We even had people come over to talk to us about them. The children loved the french fries and the sweet and sour sauce that comes with the Chicken McNuggets. The happy meal toys were also a huge hit! Everyone wanted to keep their box, so we marched all of them out in line carrying the happy meal box with their toy in it. It made their day!!

We are glad to be back in Kiev. It feels that a semi-home. We are at least familiar with the streets and where everything is. We are hoping to get the chiildren out in the next couple of days to go see the sights before we leave!

Thank you for all of the prayers! We feel that each of you has played a part in our journey and we hope that you continue to do so. The children in the orphanage that we visited where wonderful, and Jerry and I have picked out several that we would like for people to adopt!!! They were all so precious! They deserve good homes and happy families. Thank you again for you support and interest in our journey. This is truly a life-changing experience in every way!

Amanda

Monday, April 21, 2008

GOTCHA DAY!!

April 22nd will be GOTCHA Day for the Hood family! We will celebrate it every year just like another birthday. This will be a special day for our family so, please keep us in your prayers tomorrow for the 1st annual celebration!

For our first day of celebration, we will be traveling to the captial of the region where we will apply for passports. (sounds liek fun huh?!?!) We have received some positive news about the process so keep praying!! We are hoping to travel to Kiev late tomorrow and Wednesday. Once there, we will be in a mad rush (with 4 kids) to get our embassy paperwork done and visas in hand. We can then book a flight and as the children say, "Fly to America!!!"

Our internet at our apartment is down, so the next couple of days will be scarce postings. Once we get to Kiev, we will be able to communicate with all of you again!! Please pray for safe journeys, no car sickness, and LOTS of patience!!

We are on our way to the orphanage, for the last time, to see #1 and #2 perform. They are so excited! We practiced yesterday afternoon and we all had to bow and courtsey. We had a lot of fun. It should be a very special event for us. Performances are usually held when an older child is adopted. We just dropped of our first snack for our children's friends, apples and bananas. Believe it or not, they will love them!

We are in constant prayer about what is coming next. If all goes well, we shoud be home very soon. We have been very hesitant to post pictures and the children's names until the 10 day waiting period is over. As soon as we can, we will be glad to share that with you. They all love their new names and, appropriately, Hood is the word they spelled with no help!

Thank you for the comments and please keep us in your thoughts as we begin the first steps of our journey HOME!!

Love from Mama Hood,
Amanda

Thursday, April 17, 2008

The Time is Flying By!!

Well...we are still here! We are down to five days before we pick the children up. Right now, we are working on making sure everyone has enough clothes to make it home, bags to for their plane "stuff", and eating sitting down!! Rally, things are going very well. We have had some rain here so we have not been able to go outside as much. Our normal afernoon play group (mostly boys) have each come by to wave, say hello (in English!), and give Jerry their secret handshake. We found out today that one of our favorite little boys has a lady for the US here to adopt he and his brother. We were very excited!

We purchased #1 and #2 each a pair of sunglasses and now they are HOT STUFF!! We have our daily afternoon dance session, where the whole family breaks it down to "Jungle Boogie"-kids version. Of course, everyone must where their sunglasses. Today, #1 broke out the Brett Michael's rockin's out symbol with her hands. We have no idea where that came from. Let's hope she is not a future Rock of Love junkie, like her mom!

#4 was not feeling well this morning during our visit. We let the nurses know and she went back for a nap. Whatever they did, worked! This afternoon, she back for round 2, ready to go!! She said "I love you" today, which was a really big deal. She had a wonderful time with her older brothers and sisters. She has really come long way. She did not wat to leave us today. She simply sat down in the floor and when I picker her up and tried to walk into her room, she threw her foot out against the door facing. I know you don't want you child to act that way, but I was glad. She didn't want to leave us.

While #4 was not feeling well, #3 came down for a visit. We got to go outside and play on the playground. While enjoying the slide, we heard #3 begin yelling #4's name. We looked around to see #4 standing at the window waving at us. (This is while she is supposedly not feeling well!) We went over, blew kisses, and played a quick came of window hide-and-seek. It was a lot of fun. Even though the kids do not get to spend a lot time together, it was great to see how much they love each other!

We are definitely ready to begin our jouney home, although we know there is a lot to get done after we pick the children up. The orphanage has been great to us, but we are ready to get into our own routine. The children are preparing a performance for us on Monday befor we leave on Tuesday. We are taking a few bpxes of bananas and apples for snack after it is over. I am very excited to see what they have prepared. ALL of the chilren were practicing today. The orphanage was buzzing!

We really need the passport process to move quickly so that we do not get caught up in the Ukrainian holidays. If we do, we are looking well into May before we get home. :-( Thank you again for all of your prayers and support. I do not think that we can ever express how much it has meant to us. PLEASE PRAY for a QUICK passport process so that we can get home soon. There are many reasons that we need to be home, most importantly, it would be better for the children.

Love from around the world,
Amanda

Shhhh............ Amanda is in the shower and I want to post pics, don't tell her.....................................
Too late she is out of the shower and hollaring "NYET, NYET" like my youngest baby girl.
Thanks for all the post. All my boys at home get ready. Think Championship road..FINISH and BEHAVE
Word to ya muther, J

Monday, April 14, 2008

It Just Keeps Getting Better and Better...

Every day the children get better and better. The two older ones are like different people now that they know that they are going to be leaving the orphanage in 8 days!!! This morning we had some great one-on-one time with #3 and #4. #4 loved my lip gloss! We are trying to move away from black crayons!! #3 is the sweetest child ever! He will even give you his last Cheerio-that is a REALLY big deal in this family! He managed to say "I love you Big Lee" and "I love you Fred" today. Honey was a little confusing and Grandmother just completely overwhlemed him!! (Those are the grandparent names!)

#1 and #2 have made the biggest changes. My mother made some photo albums before we came of our family, our house, Sunny the cat, our schools, etc. #1 will not part with it now. Before our court date, she would not have anything to do with it! They both wrote all of their ABC's and numbers today. We are working on the verbal part. They can say most of them but need a little help here and there. They are definitley improving on writing their new names!! They really like them-I worried about that!

Today, the older two were outside with us playing. They both walked away and #2 started whispering to #1. All of the sudden, they took off and started running around picking flowers (actually, they were dandelions-in other words, weeds). Jerry and I just got to sit back and relax. After picking every flower in sight, they snuck up on us and gave Jerry and I the flowers!! They were so sweet and very proud of themselves. It think they are beginning to like us!!

Gradually, some of the other boys came over and we had a full blown block party going on. We were dribbling, kicking the soccer ball, throwing the football, etc. You name it, we were doing it! All of the kids were having so much fun. Their smiles are BEAUTIFUL and they just want to have someone to play with them and just like every other kid. We felt like we got to do that some today. I was glad that #1 and #2 did not get jealous. I really think they liked it that we were playing with their friends!

We know that some hard days may be ahead, but we sure are enjoying the ones that we are having right now! The trip is going to be CRAZY!! Everyday things get better and better. Trust is the big difference. They believe that we are not going to leave them.

Please continue to pray for swiftness (so that we can come home soon) and healthy attachment. We have several other couples here in Ukraine that we are keeping in touch with so please keep them in your prayers. They are going through the same things that we are and need your prayers and support. We talked to our Isreali friends last night and they are flying home on Wednesday! We wish them safe travels!

Love,
Amanda

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Day One

We began our 10 day waiting period today. It was a great but exhausting. We tackled all four children today! Whew! Our facilitator left for Kiev today since we will not be doing anything but visiting the kids for the next 10 days. Jerry and I are back into our walking routine like we had when we were in Kiev. It is approximately a 30 minute walk from our apartment to the orphanage. We visit twice per day, which means we are walking for a total of 2 hours per day with juice, snacks, and toys in tow!

This morning we had a great time. Everyone was very CALM, which was a pleasant surprise. The oldest children, who understand what is going on, reminded me that they only have 9 days left. They are very excited and are making airplane sounds! The DVD player came in handy today as we watched a small part of the movie Cars. #2 loved it! We also had some music going. One minute everyone was calm and the next minute, we were all doing the twist! After that came Jungle Boogie! It was one of those moments! It was so much fun!Everyone went back to their group, and as Papa took #2 back, they slipped and fell. #2 bumped his head and has a big knot! Jerry feels terrible. #2 did not cry but it obviously hurt. We let the doctor look at it and he is ok. It is just a goose egg.

This afternoon was a milestone. We took all four outside to play at the same time. They all did very well and had a great time! The are very competitive for our attention. #1 really helped with #3 and #4. When #4 came to play this afternoon, she walked in wearing bright pink lipstick and green eyeshadow! I told you she was spoiled! Her caretakers had obviously been playing make-up with her! She wanted to show me and put some more lipstick on with her black crayon. All I need is a baby who likes the gothic dress!! She also used leggos to pretend like she was putting make-up on me!

We made it through day one-5 hours of playing with four children and 2 hours of walking back and forth. The more we can be with all four of them at the same time, the more manageable it gets! They all really love being together and it is obvious that it is important to them. The are very sweet to each other. If one cries, the other three run to help. Today was the first time that they let me handle a crying sibling. I picked up #3 (who was crying), and looked at the other three and told them that everything was OK. They smiled and walked away. I guess they think that I can handle it now. Before, they would have wormed their way in to make things better.

Thank you again for all of the posts! You will never know how much all of the encouragement helps. We are SOOO ready to get the chidlren home and get into OUR rountine. Any of you that know me understand that patience is not a virtue that I was blessed with. It is certainly a virtue that has been acquired through this experience. God just never stops teaching you to grow!!

Love from Ukraine,
Amanda

Friday, April 11, 2008

THE COURT RULES FOR ...

They are ours!! We now have a Hood family of 6!

What an emotional day!! There are not many days in my life that I remember being as emotional as this one. Our court hearing began at 11:30, recessed for lunch and then concluded at 4:30 today. We were asked several questions about various parts of our lives by the judge, jurors, and prosecutor. The orphanage social worker and psychologist were also asked several questions. After much tedious review and a 20 minute decision recess, the judge announced that the state of Ukraine had granted us our four children! (We knew they were already ours-they always would have been no matter what the ruling was!)

We met with #1 and #2 today after court to tell them the good news. They were very excited and are THRILLED about coming to America. #2 began clapping and smiling and #1 began thinking and asking questions. The first question was "Do you have any other children?". What a great question-we had never told them that we did not have children. We also told them that in 11 days we will arrive to pick them up and that they will stay with us forever. We will never have to kiss them and leave them at the end of the day again. Both children are excited about flying on an airplane for the first time and even mentioned that they would have to sit down and buckle their seat belts.
Amanda

God is good. If there was anyone that did not deserve this blessing, it is me. God's grace is sufficient. At the moment, I am overwhelmed that we have been granted the right to adopt these wonderful children. During the court hearing, we heard a letter that the oldest hand wrote. Between tears, I heard this: "I like them very much and I would like to have a home with them and my sister and two brothers..." . At that point, I become teary eyed and for the first time understood that the toughest of the kids may love her new parents. Later when the ruling was read, the end of a long emotional process had culminated with the words -- Approved.

We told the two older ones after the hearing. Our translator, told the oldest to come inside for some news. She asked if the news was bad. Probably due to the fact that we did not see them at the normal times and were dressed up. We told them that they would be ours for the rest of their life after 11 days. They were excited.

She did not quite understand why we had to leave. I explained to her that for the next 10 days that we have certain times that we can visit. I kissed her and hugged her. She said, "why do you kiss and hug me if you are going to leave. I explained to her that it is temporary and that once this time is finished, she can keep the clothes that we bought and be with us everyday. She said, "you mean the one's mama gave me?"

The next kiss and hug was received and returned. End of a great day
Jerry

Thursday, April 10, 2008

THE PROCESS

We have had lots of questions about what happens during the process from here on. We do have a court date tomorrow! We are very excited and pray that things go well. If so, we have a mandatory 10 day waiting period that will begin on Saturday. On the eleventh day, the children will officially be ours. In the meantime, we will continue to visit at the orphanage twice per day. After the children are officially ours, we will pick them up and begin applying for birth certificates and passports. Some of this process involves traveling to the capital city of the region. We will then travel back to Kiev to have medical exams and visit the US Embassy for some final paperwork. We will be busy trying to find a flight with six open seats at the last minute (ugh!)

That is a lot of traveling for new parents with four children!! I am sure that it will be a fitting end to our adventurous journey. In the meantime, we just need to get through our court date. We are not nervous because we believe that we are meant to adopt these children. We just have to convey that to the judge!

Our Israeli friends are leaving tomorrow with their new daughter. We had the opportunity to spend some time with them tonight before they leave. Their story is very similar to ours. It is amazing how people from all over the world can meet in a strange country and and bond instantly. We learned a lot about their culture and hope that one day we will get to see them again!!

Thank you to everyone who has encouraged us!! We love reading the posts and hope that we continue to make progress. Scott- Congratualtions on your adoption from Ukraine! We would love to chat. We have A LOT in common!! We are ready to come home but know that we have a long way to go. Regardless, it is all worth it!

Amanda

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Court Date

Hello from Ukraine!

We wanted to let everyone know that we anticipate our court date being this Friday (Praise the Lord!!) There are several things that have to fall into place for that to happen. We are waiting on a few key documents that will be needed for the hearing to take place. Please pray that everyting falls into place, our court date occurs on Friday and that things go smoothly. We are ready for things to progress so that we can be closer to a return date.

The children are wonderful and and Jerry and I are working on learning some Russian as I type. We had learned some Ukrianian before we left, but in our region, Russian is the dominant language. Therefore, Jerry and I will now know how to get around in several countries! We simply need to know some words so that the older two children can "get the point" when we are talking. They are doing very well and are trying to pick up some English words. They have also learned to write all of our names in English! We can also write them and they recognize whose name belongs to who. #2 became quite curious about our names this week. Instead of just being Mama and Papa, they wanted to know our actual names. We took them up on this opportunity and taught them our names in English, along with their new last name. It is a great thing that Hood is so easy to spell! They have that down pat! #3 and #4 are both picking up on some English words very quickly. It is always fun to hear them imitate us with a southern accent. We were showing them some pictures the other day, and #3 popped out the word "uncle" in true southern fashion. It sounded so out of place-it was hysterical!

All in all, things are well and we are anxious to take the next step. The children feel like ours-good and bad! We can not imagine our lives without them now. As hard as it is to be away from home, it is all worth it when they are sitting in your lap and simply kiss just because they love you.

Amanda

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Lessons in Parenthood

Today I was taught a lesson in fatherhood. About halfway through the four hour morning visit, #3 had to go pee (my part of teaching English). This falls in Papa's hands. We do our business and return to play with the other five members of our family. It had to be anywhere between 20 and 30 seconds, #3 has to go again. {sidebar - papa has not covered the English word for doing poopie). He pulls down the pants and up on the pot he goes. No paper. Papa yells for wipes from Mama. A few minutes later we are washing our hands and returning to the crew. Then #2 has to go. Papa's job again.

Now some background, I have allowed the two oldest to listen to Mama and Papa's IPOD if they behave and are nice to the younger ones. #2 has an IPOD and we go to the bathroom. IPOD is attached to the pocket on the pants. Pants lowered. Ear phones fall out of ears and INTO THE TOILET. Now papa reaches to catch earphones. {At this point remember #3's adventures}
Papa pulls out headphones and they got stuck under the rim. #2 is dying laughing.
Lesson: Never get caught listening to Bon Jovi with your pants down.

Lesson #1 of many.

A thought: When you look into the eyes of the children here, you immediately realize that our lives must be lived to serve others. OM players, hug the significant male and female adult in your life and say thank you. -------------J (Hey Sela!)

Bubbles, balls, Cheerios, juice, music, yogurt, and anything with flashing lights and noise-These are a few of our favorite things!! (Kids can consume juice, Cheerios, and yogurt in massive quantities!) We are tired but are having a great time! I have never been so sore in my life! I am hurting in places that I never knew I had! Jerry and I tackled all four children yesterday and today! We would have made you proud! There are moments that we are feel like we are coralling children, but they are really doing wonderful! At least we know that we can do it. Traveling will be another issue.

We leave everyday feeling like we had some successes and discussing what we can do differently tomorrow. It gives a whole new meaning to the word TEAM. Once thing is for sure, everyone will know when the Hoods are around. We are loud, spontaneous, and big in numbers. All of the other adoptive parents are playing with their one child and they are quite and calm. And then there is the Hood family. There is no telling how it looks from the outside- to me, it is controlled chaos!! Everyday we make new discoveries and have new breakthroughs. There is no doubt in my mind that this is what Jerry and I were being prepared for. The children have wonderful personalities and each of them is very different. I feel like we are discovering a treasure every day!

We will find out about our court date tomorrow. Ukraine clebrates Easter, in addition to another holiday, the end of April and beginning of May. We REALLY do not need to get caught up in this delay. Please pray for a speedy court date!!

Love to you all!
Amanda

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Ode to Many

Greetings from sunny Ukraine. I know a lot of you would like some pics on the post, however, we must wait until later in the process. We visited the orphanage today, as usual, and had a great time. It is really hard to believe that we have only known them for five days. When we get home, I will share the extraordinary feelings that you go through trying to get to know your children in this way. It will bring you to your knees. (Mostly because they don't know where to aim the ball when they throw) I wanted to stop and thank some of you for your posts. I am sure that I will leave out many, but please know that Amanda and I read them everyday. It warms our heart.

Tip of the Day for International Adopters: Your new children will learn to say Please and Thank You very quickly. Please means I get a Cherrio and Thank You means that I will get another because you crazy Americans are proud of me for saying three words.

Cara - PAP, Hang in there, you will be here at the right time.
Kea - ROL update tomorrow. Hey to Kylie
Lee - That delicious crispy smell is a little bit of Shake and a little bit of Bake
Dana - E-mail me, check with Ron or Steve
Steve - Where have you been, get back on line
Shirley - The babies will fill the house and the yard
The Bucks - You are a great example.
Mel & Jason & Grant - Go Get Them! Your friends have become our friends. We miss you
Katie - Amanda remembers and is proud that you are a teacher.
Meadowbrook Baptist - We can't wait to get home. Please block off a whole section.
Bro. Ron - Will need your help on the sidelines this fall.
Grandparents - Babuska's and Daibuska's - You will love these kids.
The Bush's - You are so sweet to my family. You encourage us with your words and actions.
Ron, Jan, Savannah - God is Cool ! next time we pray for, be specific with numbers.
Leah & Brenda - Keep Wanda calm.
June Calame aka Grandmother - Can't wait to see you.
Jeremy, Christie and Caroline - We need strategies.
The Whitfields - Your posts are so encouraging. Thanks for trying to help us. Will know more
soon.
Alpha Gam Girls - Amanda has a plan everyday. Did you guys know this before we married?
Number 1 is just like her.
Uncle John's Family - Glad that Christmas is at your house this year. Get ready Aunt Janet.
Kelley and JT - Get Martha to give you my e-mail.
Sharon - I love you. Hey to DRE
Faulkners- Keep the posts and prayers coming.
James & Suzanne - James - now I know how nervous you were when you married Amanda and
I. Suzanne - GO EAGLES! Thanks for the church update.
The Huckabees- They are a different four. Keep the faith.
Kim - Your words always touch my heart. See you on Thursdays this fall.
George, Jay,Whit, and JB - Your e-mails are very important to me . Keep them coming and keep
me up to date. I miss you guys.
OM Football Players - The coaches are reporting great things. Build the Family. FINISH. I can't
wait to see you again. Let me hear from you sometime.
Coaches - Thanks for everything that you are doing. We need to start a daycare.
Martha - Thanks for the talks. Please update babysitting license.
Randolph - Have fun at the Master's
Big Lee - One has hunter written all over him.
OM Family - You are the best.
SP Family - Glad you made it through one visit. Keep up the good work and hang in there.
Scott - Oreo's are on the agenda.
Ron G. - I know you know
Andy and Terri - Yours will be soon. Thanks for the calls. Amanda says get ready, you will be
sore.
Mark and DJ - Go dawgs!
Helena & Christy - Keep James straight.
James - We love and miss you. What did you decide? Get the grades right.
Sholmi & Nama - Our new Isreali friends - She is a beautiful princess.



I know I have missed many. Please know that Amanda and I love you and miss you.

Friday, April 4, 2008

Step-by-Step

This journey is a whirlwind!! We have loved every minute of it so far-the highs and the lows. We are waiting to find out when our court date will be. We are praying that it comes swiftly. After the court date, there is a mandatory 10 day waiting period that allows time for people to challenge the adoptions. Although we are finding our time here is very beneficial, we would like to have a court date as soon as possible. We should know something soon! This will help us know how much longer we will be here.
The great thing about the time is being able to visit and play with the children every day. Jerry and I go to the orphanage in the morning and afternoon. We are tackling two at a time right now, but tomorrow we are going to try three! Wish us luck! The time with them is critical, as they are learning who we are and we are learning the same things about them.
The children are wonderful! We have sensed some excitement, mixed with some anxiety. I would be the same way! They each have their own personality and it did not take us long to learn who was bossy, who was athletic, who is afraid of birds, and who loves Cheerios!! They also love juice! They drink it in one big gulp!
We are having breakthroughs everyday. We pray that each day we will make a little progress with each one of them. We are so very blessed. If you have ever wondered whether God was listening, the Hoods can tell you that he is. Things do not always come the way you anticipate (in our case numbers!!), but God does provide and his timing is perfect.
Thank you to everyone who has prayed for us and has continued to follow our wonderful journey. We could not have done this without you so many of you. The hard part is just beginning, so please keep the prayers coming! We are praying for healthy attachments, easy transitions, and low anxiety (for all of us!). We feel like our family is much larger than 6 people. We feel like each of you has been on this journey with us, every step of the way!!

Love,
Amanda

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Interesting Facts

Coca-Cola in Ukraine - $1.00

Amanda's admission to every historical site in Ukraine - $50.00

Jerry's John Travolta pants - $80.00

Plane tickets home from Ukraine - $ Forget about it....

Adopting the four most precious children that we have ever seen........PRICELESS!!!

Amanda and I will petition to bring home our new children. All FOUR of them.

More to come..................................